If you suspect that your partner may be cheating on you. It is natural to feel devastated and not know what to do next. Part of you may hope that you are wrong and not want to accuse your partner of being unfaithful without having proof in case it creates problems in your relationship that weren’t already there. However, most of us that have been cheated on a later comment that, in hindsight, they already had an idea that their partner was being unfaithful, and they just didn’t know how to confront the problem. Often, when you think your partner is cheating on you, your intuition kicks in, even if you don’t yet have any solid evidence that they have done anything wrong. So, we have put together some of the most obvious and common signs that indicate your partner may be cheating on you.

Time and Attention Changes

One of the first giveaways is a change in how your partner spends their time and what holds their attention. Has your partner suddenly started staying out late with friends or staying up after you’ve already gone to bed? Do you sometimes feel like they would rather be out than at home with you? While this may not necessarily mean that they are being unfaithful, changes in their attention and how much time they spend away from you and your relationship could be an indicator that they are spending time with someone else.

They are Always on Their Phone

With the rise in social media and how much time we all now spend on our phones every day, many cheaters are guilty of being unfaithful online and through text messages. If you notice a change in how much time your other half is spending on their phone and being secretive about who they are talking to, this is a sign that they could be cheating. Being unfaithful online has increased significantly in recent years. Moreover, if you look at the statistics on cheaters cheating again you will see that online activity is a huge catalyst to infidelity.

Lack of Physical Intimacy

If you are used to be being affectionate and physical with your partner and this level of intimacy suddenly decrease or disappears altogether. This could be a sign that they are being unfaithful. A cheater may avoid being physically intimate with their partner. They have secretly been sexually intimate with someone else behind their back, so this is something that you should watch out for.

Lying or Evasiveness

If you and your partner previously confided in one another and didn’t have any secrets. Recently this has changed and your partner seems to be keeping things from you. You should be wary that they could be cheating on you.

The thought that the one you love could be lying and cheating on you is devastating. By being aware of the most obvious signs you can find the strength to confront your partner about your suspicions and demand the respect you deserve.


Ana is an internet entrepreneur and one of the founders of iGuides, she loves to give adequate time to her passion which is writing. She holds a PHD in English Literature.

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